According to many studies the primary reasons for choosing an abortion are:

• — pregnancy was not planned or wanted —
• — not ready to have a baby yet —
• — inconvenient time of life or the child interferes with goals —
• — financial concerns —
• — pressure by parents or other family members —
• — fear of people finding out about the pregnancy —

But, the number one reason that women choose abortionist that their partner, the father of the child, either passively or aggressively, refused to support the women in carrying the child to birth.

In other words, the woman believes that she will be abandoned by the most important person in her life if she continues the pregnancy.

Yet 70% of Relationships End Anyway!

It has been reported that an estimated 70% of relationships end within the first year following an abortion. If you are thinking that having an abortion will help you keep your lover, think again.


Why do the men leave?
Often, the men who refuse to live up to their responsibilities resent the women that they have let down:
the mother of the child that they did not support.

And, when a woman realizes the pain abortion has caused, she will resent the man who got them pregnant and did not fulfill his obligations as a father.

Other factors such as guilt, shame,
anger, and fear are other reasons why the relationship may end.

Please realize that abortion not only destroys your child, it can also ruin the very relationship that you most hoped would last.
 

Reasons to abort…  …Answers to abortion!

Mother’s health: Therapeutic abortion There are more than 50 surgeries which can be performed inside the uterus.  If this is possible, the fetus, even inside the uterus other mother, is already considered a patient, in other words, a person; and, if it is a person, it has the right to live.  Nowadays, there are many possibilities.  New advances in science may cover almost any complication in pregnancy, without having to choose to kill the mother or the baby. Practically any condition can be controlled until the delivery. This picture shows one of the surgeries carried out inside the uterus.  Look what the impressed photographer watched though his camera lens… the tiny hand of the baby trying to grab the surgeon’s finger.   Imperfection (defect):  Eugenic abortion Perfection does not mean having the right to live.  People do not pass a quality control.  A person can be “defective” (physically imperfect) yet still wonderful human being… or be physically complete, “perfect”, but a human monster or a despicable person.  This is not a reason to abort.  The kindness of a human heart does no need a perfect body to develop itself completely.   What would you advice a woman who is pregnant for the fifth time…  Whose husband suffers from syphilis and she suffers from tuberculosis, Whose oldest child was born blind… Whose second child died… Whose third child was born deaf… Whose fourth child suffers from tuberculosis? That she have an abortion?  You just signed the death sentence of Ludwig van Beethoven.   It is not a life.  Abortion for ignorance One would have to hide tons of scientific information which confirms that it is a life by looking at the stages of gestation.  The majority of women who have an abortion really do not know what they are doing.  If they knew, they would not do it.   Overpopulation:  Social abortion. As an example:  China, with its policy of having just one child, avoided the birth of at least 2 million children from 1970 to the present…and as a consequence, in the near future will see increase of aged people, the aging of its population.  (AICA December 1, 1999).  The aging of the population, not the in population lives, the fertility rate is under the 2.1 necessary to assure the replacement of generations.  Rape:  Emotional abortion A violent act, such as rape, should be followed by another, even worse act of violence such as murder.  Is abortion the best option that society can offer a woman who has been raped?  A woman is a victim of a rape and not of a pregnancy.  She must receive psychological therapy, and perhaps physical therapy too, but not through an abortion.  This will not release her from any of the pain (physical nor psychological produced by a rape.   Where is the real problem?  It lies within the child who did not choose to be born, or in the “psychological and emotional world” of the mother who lives with the memory of the rape.